these texts are an archive of my life in the San Francisco Bay Area from march 2007 - march 2015. it stands as a record of close to a decade of my life, charting the struggles i faced as an artist, daughter, and lover. messy and chaotic at times, eloquent and poetic at others, these texts are an index i am proud of. it was here in this electric box that i learned how to be honest about my experiences and the person i needed to become. it was here that i first learned the truism that words make the world and how to trust such a beautiful, rife, hard fact.
Oct 5, 2012
belief
we stay up late. we discuss our theories. we discuss the theories of all the big dogs and i count my blessings. then, i count how many shots i've poured. i count how many books i've read this year (far fewer than the last) and i count how many times i can get a raised eyebrow out of a man.
my roommates head to bed and i hang new pictures on the wall. pollen filters in through my open window and i listen to the neighbors fighting. i put on a slow song of romantic redemption. i take off my shoes. i take off my socks. i pull the braid out of my hair.
earlier, we discussed the power of images. we discussed the power of persona and watched Lady Gaga videos. i played my favorite and said: "she understands visual pleasure. she knows the exact moment when taboo begins."
that picture up top: that image is me and it is not me. i am that girl sometimes. and sometimes that is the truest self i can express. sometimes i am a girl of fishnets and wild hair and all i want is for someone to notice that i need a nice, good slap. but there are reasons for this and those reasons matter. those reasons are not contained in the photographs i present. there is the allusion. there is the heartache. it is spelled out in vivid pink. it is scrawled all over me. but i don't want to have to go on and on about it. sometimes i just want a reckoning and i don't want to have to argue for it. just do what needs to be done.
that picture up top: it is me and it is not me. sometimes i am not that girl at all. sometimes i am too angry for romance, too absorbed in my own slow rage. i am too interested in my own steam and decorum to consider the desires of another. leave me alone. i like my lonely road just fine. i need no hand to hold. god died for me the second my mother did. and let me tell you, i've never felt so fucking free. i twirl my hair and paint my nails and stare you in the face. i don't owe anyone anything and i plan to keep it that way.
that picture up top: it is me and it is not me.
Labels:
angela simione,
identity,
identity construction,
lady gaga,
persona,
photography
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